Nag or Hate

When I was in my teenage years, I like to locked myself in the room.. It's to hide away from my mom's naggings. Or rather to hide myself from being ask to do things.. I always feel that my mom is super naggy and long winded.. she seems so 烦~annoying.

As I grew older and came to KL to study then to work, I'd went back occassionally but still I would prefered to go out with my friends then to stay home listening to her "grandmother's stories" and her complaints. Then I met my bf now hubby, his mom was a very nice lady. She's seldom at home cos spend most of her time in Singapore working. It's just left me and my hubby at home. She pampered us alot and she will buy things back for us everytime she comes back from Singapore.

I never had any hard feeling towards her but still there are rivalry between us as we compete for one man's attention (her son, my hubby). I presume this is normal for a family that only have one son and moreover a divorcee. I often give in cos I ought to respect elderly eventho I dont look like a person that would. wakakaka... Altho she is a very easy-going person but being a woman, she tend to nag too (even I would, sometimes). I've run away from my naggy mom and landed myself to a naggy MIL. Altho she doesnt nag alot but I'd hate it when she nags that I am untidy, I dont follow up on things, I dont put back things to where it belongs and I am irresponsible so to said. I feel that she will never ever be grateful to what I do.

As long as I am under her roof I ought to listen to what she says that's my theory. It's actually like never ending story and it's ever meant to be MIL & DIL rivalry. Anyhow, I will be other's ppl MIL one day.. and I hope I wont turn out to be a grumpy old woman. When my mom meet my MIL, she said that my MIL is a very easy going person and it's good for me.. but mom would feel that my relation is better with MIL then to her.

Now perhaps it's 相见好,同居难. People that we dont met often we usually will think they are better but when we starts to live together, there may be problems arise. That's the nature I think.

Lots of my friend usually think that I am very bossy. I am very fierce and demanding. But I had to admit that when at home, I still have to listen to the MIL says. I know that staying together under one roof we need to communicate which I admit that I didnt. So this person dont know wat the other person thinking and vice versa. I dont like to express my feeling out to my family.. So when the MIL nagged I either swallowed it or ignored it.. Perhaps bcos we never communicate we tend to assume too much..

haizh.. i got to stop ... cos I am quite blur on what's this topic all bout already .. till another ranting again... Adios !!.